[ARM64][Installer]Install vcredist and upgrade wix to 3.14(#18500)

* [ARM64] Install VCRedist using bootstrapper and fix autoupdate

* [ARM64] Use system-wide WiX toolset instead of a nuget package

* [CI] Install WiX 3.14

* [CI] add wix install script for release.yml

* [Doc] Update WiX install steps

* [CI]Fix Wix path

* Double quotes for full wix path

* fixup: verify wix hashes

* ignore sha256s

* spellcheck

* updated vcredist name

* norestart for vcredist

.github/actions/spell-check/expect.txt

@@ -1649,6 +1649,7 @@ rects
 recyclebin
 redirectedfrom
 Redist
+Redistributable
 reencode
 reencoded
 refactor

.github/actions/spell-check/patterns.txt

@@ -37,6 +37,8 @@ std::wregex\(L"[^"]*"\)
 
 # hash
 Hash="[0-9A-F]{40}"
+# SHA256 hash
+'[0-9A-F]{64}'
 
 # hex digits including css/html color classes:
 (?:[\\0][xX]|\\u|[uU]\+|#x?|\%23|L")[0-9a-fA-FgGrR_]{2,}(?:[uU]?[lL]{0,2}|u\d+)\b