Fix CmdPal application activation (#40162)

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This PR:
- Fixes the passing of activation arguments between instances.
- Adds defensive handling of exceptions if the activation argument is
corrupted.
- Ensures that the activation method is consistently handled on the main
thread.
- Updates the condition under which the main window is displayed after
startup or activation.

The main window will now be automatically shown when the app is started
or activated, except in the following cases:
- when started as a startup task,
- when started using x-cmdpal://background,
- when started using x-cmdpal://settings.

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Co-authored-by: Mike Griese <migrie@microsoft.com>

src/modules/cmdpal/Microsoft.CmdPal.UI/MainWindow.xaml.cs

@@ -6,6 +6,7 @@ using System.Diagnostics;
 using System.Runtime.InteropServices;
 using CmdPalKeyboardService;
 using CommunityToolkit.Mvvm.Messaging;
+using ManagedCommon;
 using Microsoft.CmdPal.Common.Helpers;
 using Microsoft.CmdPal.Common.Messages;
 using Microsoft.CmdPal.Common.Services;
@@ -450,30 +451,42 @@ public sealed partial class MainWindow : WindowEx,
             return;
         }
 
-        if (activatedEventArgs.Kind == Microsoft.Windows.AppLifecycle.ExtendedActivationKind.Protocol)
+        try
         {
-            if (activatedEventArgs.Data is IProtocolActivatedEventArgs protocolArgs)
+            if (activatedEventArgs.Kind == ExtendedActivationKind.StartupTask)
             {
-                if (protocolArgs.Uri.ToString() is string uri)
-                {
-                    // was the URI "x-cmdpal://background" ?
-                    if (uri.StartsWith("x-cmdpal://background", StringComparison.OrdinalIgnoreCase))
-                    {
-                        // we're running, we don't want to activate our window. bail
-                        return;
-                    }
-                    else if (uri.StartsWith("x-cmdpal://settings", StringComparison.OrdinalIgnoreCase))
-                    {
-                        WeakReferenceMessenger.Default.Send<OpenSettingsMessage>(new());
-                        return;
-                    }
-                }
-
                 return;
             }
+
+            if (activatedEventArgs.Kind == ExtendedActivationKind.Protocol)
+            {
+                if (activatedEventArgs.Data is IProtocolActivatedEventArgs protocolArgs)
+                {
+                    if (protocolArgs.Uri.ToString() is string uri)
+                    {
+                        // was the URI "x-cmdpal://background" ?
+                        if (uri.StartsWith("x-cmdpal://background", StringComparison.OrdinalIgnoreCase))
+                        {
+                            // we're running, we don't want to activate our window. bail
+                            return;
+                        }
+                        else if (uri.StartsWith("x-cmdpal://settings", StringComparison.OrdinalIgnoreCase))
+                        {
+                            WeakReferenceMessenger.Default.Send<OpenSettingsMessage>(new());
+                            return;
+                        }
+                    }
+                }
+            }
+        }
+        catch (COMException ex)
+        {
+            // Accessing properties activatedEventArgs.Kind and activatedEventArgs.Data might cause COMException
+            // if the args are not valid or not passed correctly.
+            Logger.LogError("COM exception when activating the application", ex);
         }
 
-        Activate();
+        Summon(string.Empty);
     }
 
     public void Summon(string commandId) =>